How to deal with my spouse and MIL?

You and I are in the same boat. My mother in law doesn't like me at all. Actually all of my wife's sisters cant stand me. Does it bother me? NO. You need to just drop it. Your mother in law doesn't like you then fine that's her thing. Let her deal with those issues. Show her that it doesn't bother you but at the same time let your husband know how you feel. I haven't really spoken to mine in over a year and look at me, I'm fine. My mother watches my daughter free of charge too so like I said I am right there too. Remember, be strong, talk to your husband about how you feel and don't let your mother in law start problems between you and your husband. If you need any more advice drop me an email at advice_from_experience at yahoo. Good Luck